Tuesday, January 31, 2012

A Couple of Do-Nothings


For two days in a row, when I've gotten home from work, I've immediately changed into comfy clothes and jumped into bed. 
At 1:00 in the afternoon. 
I do homework for hours (there may be some phone calls, Private Practice, and blogging involved). 
There I stay until Conrad comes home. I greet him at the door at 6:30, and we hop right back into bed with our laptops, and lounge away until bedtime. 
Last night, I was craving sweets, so I whipped up some banana-chocolate chip muffins with the one old banana I had. They were scrumptious. 
We also had a sub-par dinner of chili on rice with way too many beans. 
It would have been a great winter meal if I didn't ruin it with the beans. 

But, oh, the lounging. 
This is a routine I may start to habit. 

Monday, January 30, 2012

In our house, this is how jammies are worn


Tucked into our socks. 
I've concluded that this is the best outfit to wear on a cozy, snuggly evening. 

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Is it really January?








 Today, we woke up lazy, wriggled into our swimsuits, and headed to the beach (with the lovely year-round parking pass I got Conrad for Christmas). 
The waves were short and long, and the water was freezing, and the wind was blowing, and the sun was shining hard. And I sure ain't mad at the image of Conrad in a wetsuit. Making me lusty!
It was the first time in months that my skin has seen the sun, and I'm pretty sure a little girl went blind from my paleness. 
Tonight we're going to dinner for a friend's birthday.
Not a bad day. 

Friday, January 27, 2012

How to get what you want out of date night



Above: pictures from last night's computer/tea party

Send your husband this email:

This is so fun. I'll be happy whatever you pick. Love you!

Pick one restaurant:
Casa de Bandini
Borelli's
Rock 'n' Roll Sushi
Joey's Smokin' BBQ

Pick one dessert option:
dessert at whatever restaurant we go to
frozen yogurt
pick up some candy at the store

Pick one activity:
RedBox or movie on Netflix at home
Go see Man on a Ledge, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, or The Artist
Walk on the beach

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Awkward and Awesome

lunch.


Awkward
- Trying on my bathing suit in January, only to see that I'm much thinner than I was in the summer (why?!), but still have a lot of work to do in the tanning department.
- Singing along to a song in the car like you're on American Idol, then feeling leering eyes on you from the car next to you. Just look at them and keep going.
- When I part my hair down the middle and realize I have an almost-mullet. Dream come true.
- Going to the dentist to get a cavity filled, then having a nervous breakdown for fifteen minutes. Your choices are to drill into the cavity without being numbed, or get numbed with three huge shots in your face. Not really liking my options, here, doc.

Awesome
- That feeling of completing an assignment before you are scrambling and rushing. And then being done.
- Thinking about summer already! Hey, it's 74 degrees today. Summer's on the mind.
- Sleeping in until 9:20 on a Wednesday because I don't have to go to the nursing home today. Waking up to sunshine instead of raindrops.
- The fact that Conrad volunteered to take some of the household responsibility off my hands while I'm finishing school. Yes, dear, of course I'll let you take over grocery shopping and doing dishes until July.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

A regular day

I made both the scarf and the skirt in the above outfit. Pretty crafty, no? 
My day consists of the following: 
Reading, reading, reading
homework
watching some psych
tutoring
class meeting online
mutual
a tasty dinner of i-don't-know-what
Rooibos tea and shortbread cookies while watching a movie with Conrad on the couch
playing a lovely game of "see who can fall asleep first"


Sunday, January 22, 2012

i need

AE Dark Denim Shirt
dark denim shirt from American Eagle

For reals, does everyone have one of these except me?


Friday, January 20, 2012

Cake for Dinner!


Because we're grown ups! Yayayayayaya! And because my inner domestic goddess didn't feel like coming out of her castle today.
Also, don't you love that pan? I got it for Christmas from my in-laws. So lovely.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Things I love today

  • hot showers
  • friends who call you really early to take you to breakfast and help you procrastinate homework
  • the smell of freshly shampoo'd hair
  • super fluffy socks
  • turning my heater on to 70 degrees (Conrad, don't get mad! I do this when you're gone, then when you get home I run and turn it back to 68)
  • Ninners. He is just so dang cute.
  • knowing that I get to see my family soon
  • approaching graduation in July!!! Seriously, it's weird to think there will soon be a day when I don't have homework.
Things I'm wishing for:
  • Conrad to come home early and snuggle me to death (ok, maybe not to death. maybe just to sleep)
  • a nice camera
  • multiple new clothing items
  • a personal chef/shopper/maid/homework doer

All you need is _ _ _ _


picture courtesy of Elise Capener

In two weeks, I've had 2 people tell me how much Conrad loves me.
"He just adores you. He thinks you are so funny. I was watching him when we were at dinner, and he was just staring at you the whole time."

I love when he comes home and looks all around the house because I'm the first thing he wants to see when he gets off work. I love when he squirms when we cuddle. I love that he's the snuggly one in the relationship.

And I'm glad people notice. 

He told me once, "You are just so cute. When you get home I'm going to take a picture of you."

Isn't our sappiness just the best? I love him. Like, love love. It's gross. 

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Going to the Dentist

As a child, my mom would have the dentist seal our teeth so we wouldn't get cavities. You know how kids are about oral hygiene... So naturally, I had never had a cavity before.

Jump forward to when I get home from my first 2 semesters at college: I have 2 cavities. How embarrassing. I got them filled, and vowed to be a better brusher.

Jump forward to our first dentist appointment after 2 years of marriage: 3 cavities. One on the surface of the molar, and one double-time cavity in between 2 molars (as a result of poor flossing habits). I got them filled and vowed to be a better flosser.

I bought some of these and have been really good about using them daily! I can honestly say that I floss every day.

Jump forward to yesterday: Conrad and I both have a cavity. His was from poor flossing habits, mine was actually a genetic flaw in my tooth. I have always had a little pit in one of my teeth, and as a kid I always thought it was a cavity (it's a little tiny hole). It was never deep enough and never had any decay, so it technically wasn't a cavity. Whelp, it finally deepened, and now is a cavity. I have to go get my SIXTH cavity filled this week. 

How embarrassing for me. 

Monday, January 16, 2012

Vacation Ideas


I'm looking ahead at some of our yearly plans (Valentine's day, anniversary, my graduation, birthdays) and thinking about some of our travel options. Obviously we aren't going to do something big for all of the holidays, but those are just some excuses that we could use to get out of town. 

Hearst Castle?


Lake Tahoe?


Yellowstone?


Mount Rushmore?


Hawaii?


Greece, even?

Any opinions?

Friday, January 13, 2012

Cook by the Book

I love cookbooks. If I see a cool one, I've got to have it. I currently have TWENTY cookbooks, all of which I use rather regularly. I love them. I love the recipes they provide, and I really love the charming aesthetic they add to a kitchen. Here are some of my favorite staple cookbooks to have:
The Joy of Cooking
Flavors
5 Ingredient Fix (I use this one all the time)
Mastering the Art of French Cooking
The Cheesemonger's Kitchen
New Flavors for Desserts

Here are some I don't have yet:
Barefoot Contessa How Easy is That? (and pretty much all other Ina Garten cookbooks)
Macarons

The best way to buy a cookbook is NOT at the store. I always find amazing cookbooks at stores like William Sonoma or Anthropologie, but you'll save at least 50% if you write down the name, and buy it on Amazon.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Walk on the Bleach

After an intense session of bleaching my whole kitchen from top to bottom, I realized I had been living among utter filth for 8 months. The before and after difference was really drastic, particularly on the countertops, where I eat my food! 
Before

After

My floor grout, just naturally dark, but totally sterile. 

If you have tile countertops, floor, or shower in your house, I'd recommend bleaching or deep cleaning regularly. Grout is porous, which means it has lots of tiny air spaces where mold and germs breed like bunnies.
I use bleach or lysol or Ajax. 
Don't use pure bleach on your tile, particularly if it's in an area where food is. I use a diluted solution with 3 parts water, 1 part bleach. If you just use a small bowl and a toothbrush, you won't use too much chemicals. Dip the toothbrush and scrub the grout until it is its original color. The bleach solution will get really dirty-looking, but you don't need to change it until it's really dark. The bleach kills the mold, or whatever. 

Note: Keep an open window while you are bleaching. Also, don't bleach for more than an hour or 2. Work quickly. I bleached my whole kitchen, with no open windows, and it took about 5 hours. My throat was burning from breathing in the fumes for so long, and I'm fairly certain I may have throat cancer now. 
Learn from my mistakes.

Also, never mix bleach with any other cleaning product. Ammonia and bleach, when put together, make a very toxic solution, and emit toxic fumes. 

Use these tips, and bleaching your floor will be a walk on the beach! Plus, you'll literally be walking on bleach.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Lazy-Day Follow Up

So I told you yesterday that today was going to be busy, which is why I did nothing but lounge for my so-called mental health. I kept my promise. I was moving nonstop all day.

Woke up, ate breakfast, put on scrubs.
Go to nursing home, assist the doctor in all of the gloriously gross things we do there.
Drove straight to staff meeting, where there was lunch waiting for me (thank goodness).
Came home, got my grocery list, went to the grocery store. Didn't even sit down.
Keep in mind, I'm still wearing my scrubs.
Get groceries, come home, put them away.
Work on homework, attend my online class meeting.
Make dinner, realize I forgot basil, realize dinner can still be crazy good without it.
Conrad comes home, spend 10 minutes with him while eating dinner.
We both leave at the same time, me for Mutual, him for work.
Just got home.

Whew! I actually like being this busy. I don't eat as much [which is always a good thing. summer is always coming], and I'm super productive. Cons, however, are that I don't sleep as well, which makes my muscles tense [at least I have an excuse for a massage!], and also, my hair sort of falls out. Not on an alopecia level or anything, but I shed more.

Some of my favorite quotes from working at the nursing home:
"Are you Jewish? You look Jewish."
"I used to live here before all the Mexicans and Blacks moved in."
"It's f***ing freezing in here. I'm going to sue you."
"You look just like my first wife. She was great in bed."
"Get your hands off me! You NEVER listen!" (First time I saw her)
"It's colder than blazes in here!" (we get lots of comments on the temperature)
"Is he the doctor? Oh, he is so handsome. Don't you think he is just so handsome?" (right in front of the doctor)
"I can't get my toenails done today. I have a plane to catch."
"Are you having a baby? Why not?"

Isn't it funny how something totally racist and offensive is just sort of charming when an 80 year old says it?

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

One of those days

Today I worked, went to lunch with my friend, went for a walk with another friend, and pretended to work on my classes but really just watched Psych. I was moderately productive, and now all I want to do is lounge. I want to take a long bath, a long nap, and lay on the couch and read a non-academic book.

I'm going to work at the nursing home tomorrow (take note of my feigned enthusiasm), after which I'll attend a work meeting, get groceries, tutor, go to mutual, and work on school. I think, in anticipation of all that productivity, I deserve a relaxation night. No cooking dinner, no dishes, certainly no cleaning or homework. Just hanging out at home with my husband.

To balance off yesterdays, er, heavier reading, here's a silly video that I just can't stop watching. I'm 100% sure I've already posted it. It's that good.


Monday, January 9, 2012

Navigating your Health Insurance Plan


I work in a Podiatry office and deal with hundreds of insurance plans every week. I’ve learned a lot about how insurance works, and I’ve learned even more how little people understand or know their own coverage.

Here’s some information that will hopefully make your insurance plan a little easier to understand.

Words to know:
Copay – the payment you make at the beginning of each doctor’s visit. Instead of paying a different amount each time, you pay the set amount, and you are covered for a certain percentage after that. For me, if I pay my $20 copay, my doctor’s office visit is covered 100%. (This does not include and additional charges, such as an injection during the visit, or medical equipment. It only covers the consultation time with the doctor)

PCP – Primary care physician. General family doctor, non-specialist.

Deductible – the yearly amount that, if met, will open up your coverage benefits. Once you meet your annual deductible you do not have to meet it again until the next year. You do not have to meet your deductible. You do, though, if you want the coverage. In other words, it’s ok to not meet the deductible.  Even if you do meet it, many plans will still require you to pay a small percentage of the cost. Not everything will be applicable to your deductible, either. Just because you paid $275 for something, doesn’t necessarily mean that $275 will count towards your deductible. Sometimes only a percentage (or even nothing) is applicable. There are 2 kinds of deductibles that I’ve dealt with:
  •          Individual deductible – the amount that you as an individual must meet
  •          Family deductible – the amount that your family must meet. Often it is 2 or 3 occurrences (2 or 3 times) of the indiv. deductible.

Provider – another word for doctor or doctor’s office.

Referral – obviously a referral is a “referring to” by someone. In the case of insurance, your doctor would refer you to another doctor if necessary. If you are told that you need a referral (to a Podiatrist, for example) and don’t know how to get one, just tell them about whatever medical problem you are having (in this case, foot and ankle problems), and that you’d like an insurance referral to a specialist. They’ll know where to go from there. Within 10 days, you’ll receive, by mail, a copy of the referral, at which point you are able to make the appointment. Double check, though, that the specialist got the referral, too. They can’t make the appointment without it.

Specialist – a specialist is a doctor who [obviously]specializes in something (ie: they are not general practitioners or primary care associates). Your family doctor is not a specialist. At a specialist’s office, your copay may be higher than at a regular doctor.

HMO vs. PPO – If you have an HMO plan (Health Maintenance Organization), your insurance company creates a network of doctors that you can see. HMOs usually have a lower copay. However, these plans are not very flexible. If you want to see a doctor who is not in-network, you will have to pay to see them, or find another doctor. The only time they will cover an out-of-network provider is if it is a medical emergency, which must be proven. The trade-off for such strictness is that your out-of-pocket costs will be much lower. If you need to see a specialist, you must get a referral from your PCP.

PPO (Preferred Provider Organization) plans are more flexible, and may have higher copays, but allow you to see more doctors. Out-of-pockets may also be higher. There is also a network of doctors you are covered to see. If you see an out-of-network doctor, the PPO will cover some of the cost (unlike an HMO, which would cover none). You do not need a referral to see a specialist (you can just see them as needed).

POS (Point of Service) plans offer some PPO and some HMO benefits. You get to choose which benefits you want to use when you see a provider.

Coverage & Benefits – I’ll use some benefits from my own plan as an example. If you are “covered at 80% after you meet a $500 deductible,” and the cost of your procedure is $100, then you will have to pay the $100. You are only covered at 80% once your deductible is paid. So that $100 would most likely go towards your deductible (if applicable).

If your cost is $1000 you must pay $500 to meet the deductible, and once met, you will only be responsible for 20% of the remaining $500, so $100. Your total paid will be $600.

Some equipment and procedures may not be covered on your plan, or might have a lower coverage percent. Not everything has the same coverage. For example, in my plan, pediatrician visits are covered at 100% [which is of no use to me, since I have no children. Poop], but other things are covered at 80%. If I see an out-of-network physician, I am only covered at 50%.
Some questions you might have:

What is a good plan vs. a bad plan?
A good plan is one that has a low deductible and a high percent of coverage. In the end, you want to pay as little as possible for the most coverage possible. My plan covers most things – in-network – at 80% after an individual deductible of $250. That’s a pretty good plan. However, there are only 2 people in my family. The larger the family, the larger the deductible.

How much is the copay?
                Each plan differs, but for a typical doctor’s office visit, your copay may be between $0 and $100. I know, that’s pretty broad, but there are so many different companies and plans, that there is no standard copay amount. From personal experience of working in a doctor’s office, most copays are between $10 and $40. Some are lower or higher. My mother-in-law pays a $75 copay, which is really high. My copay is $20. You can see that there is a wide variety of copays. [Note: you don’t only pay copays at the doctor’s office. You may have an ER copay, which is generally high, like $80 or more. You may have a prescription copay, which could be $15 or more.

How do I get health insurance?
                You can get it directly from the insurance company, or you can get it from your employer. I’m covered as a dependant under my husband’s plan, which is paid for by his work. If your job does not provide health insurance, you can search different websites for plans that fit your family.

What are the best insurance companies?
                I’ve worked with a lot of different companies, and the ones that I think are the best are the ones that the most people have. These are, in my opinion, the top five (not including Medicare, since I think most of my readers aren’t quite eligible yet):
*Anthem Blue Cross
*Aetna
*United Health Care
Blue Shield
Blue Cross/Blue Sheild (weird, I know)

How do I know what counts towards my deductible?
                You don’t, unfortunately. I can’t help you with this one. You just have to call your insurance company, and they’ll tell you what will apply, or what won’t apply. 

I know it’s confusing. The easiest way to learn more is to call the insurance company directly. They’re usually really patient and helpful in explaining how it all works, and what you are covered for. 


SOS: Save Our Soles


I like to consider myself a pretty good recycler. Granted, my Diet Pepsi cans don’t always make it to the recycling bin, what I am good at reusing is paper. I save old junk mail, phone books, and magazines in a special “Scrap Paper” box, and use them again to line Ninners’ cage, as kindling for lighting fires in my fireplace, scratch paper for phone messages, etc.

I recently bought some stylish riding boots that come up to my knees. They’re amazing when I wear them, but when they’re off, they slouch over and get crease lines on the ankles. Repeated treatment like this can ruin your boots. You may be wondering what my boots and pension for saving paper have to do with each other.

Here’s what:

Extend the life of your boots by rolling up an old magazine and slipping it inside the legs. They’ll stand upright and prevent slouchiness. And tackiness. 

Plus, now you have another reason to hang on to that magazine with Brad Pitt on the cover just a little bit longer. 


Sunday, January 8, 2012

BANANA BREAD

I don't really like to eat bananas unless they are very barely ripe. The moment they start freckling, they get really squishy and fragrant and alcoholly, and frankly, I think it's gross. However, just because I don't like to eat them really ripe, doesn't mean I don't like to use them in other things. Banana's are best in recipes when they're really ripe (banana pancakes, cookies, bread, cake). They mash easily, and their sugar content is higher (ie: sweeter). Perfect for baking. 

I love easy recipes (if you don't remember, just look at my easy dinner ideas). I just made this banana bread, and Conrad and I didn't even let it cool for 1 minute before we started burning our mouths devouring the loaf. One note: don't even think about using unripe bananas. They should be mostly brown or black on the skin, and really easily squished. 

2-4 overripe bananas 
1/3 cup butter
3/4 cup- 1 cup sugar
1 egg, beaten
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 teaspoon baking soda
Pinch of salt
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour

Preheat your oven to 350ยบ. In a large, microwave safe bowl, melt butter. Mash up bananas in the same bowl with a fork, then mix. Add the sugar, egg, vanilla, baking soda and salt and mix together. Add the flour and stir until smooth. Pour the batter into a greased loaf pan, and bake for 55 min. Try to let cool for at least 15 minutes before you shove the whole loaf in your mouth.

Smear with butter or cream cheese for a delicious, fast breakfast. Bagels begone!

Friday, January 6, 2012

Life on the Wedge

I just bought this cookbook that focuses solely on recipes with fine cheeses! I'm so excited to try some of the recipes. Check out the goat cheese and roasted garlic beehive with honey! I'm going to gain a thousand pounds. 




Also, did you know that it's illegal to buy raw milk cheeses in the United States? Something about health reasons, blah blah blah. Who knew cheese was such a risky business?

Thursday, January 5, 2012

The Big Chill: Easy Dinners with Easy Ingredients

I always have fresh food in my house. I love vegetables and herbs and fruits. They make dinners so much tastier, plus, if you have a jumble of fresh veggies, fruits, or herbs in your fridge, nine times out of ten, you'll be able to make a really fast, easy dinner. Here's a couple of my favorites. All of these recipes can be seasoned with salt and pepper, and any additional herbs or spices you prefer. 

Caprese Salad
 Tomatoes, Parmesan or Mozzerella cheese, fresh basil (also use chives if you have them), olive oil and vinegar. Slice and mix all ingredients.

Citrus Cilantro Salad
 Romaine, pineapple (or any fruit, but pineapple is my favorite), lemon juice, olive oil, cilantro. Cut the Romaine long-ways in half, top with diced pineapple and chopped cilantro, drizzle with lemon juice and olive oil. Add chives for extra flavor.

Crusty Coconut Almond Chicken
Raw chicken breast, Panko Japanese breadcrumbs, shredded coconut, sliced almonds, 1-2 eggs. Mix the breadcrumbs, coconut, and almonds. Whisk the egg(s), coat the raw chicken in it, then coat in breadcrumb mixture. Bake at 350 until cooked through. 

Spaghetti Squash
Spaghetti squash, halved longways, pesto, marinara, or meat sauce. Lightly oil the squash, season with salt and pepper, and bake facing down (like a dome) for 1 hour (may take longer, check every 10 minutes after 1 hr) at 375. You'll know they're done when you can easily scrape the "spaghetti" off the squash with a fork, and it has the consistency of pasta. Top with any desired pasta sauce - pesto is my favorite. Add cheese if desired.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Secret Stash-ios

Last night, at dinner with my in-laws, we were discussing - among many other things - our mutual love of pistachio flavored everything. Pistachios, pistachio pudding, Spumoni ice cream (particularly the pistachio stripe)... Then we talked about how we wish they would make plain pistachio ice cream, without the chocolate and cherry stripes.

To our delight, they do. They are Ben, Jerry, and the lovely Germans who make Haagen Dazs.

       

I immediately went and bought the Haagen Dazs. It tasted great, but it was white ice cream with little green pistachio pieces. I must say, I was a little disappointed about the color. To me, anything pistachio flavored should be green. I look forward to trying the Ben & Jerry's kind and comparing.


I Am Resolute

So, I know I posted my "30 before 30" list on the blog, but I wanted to post some of my resolutions, as they are only for this year, and not necessarily the next 8 years.

1. Graduate. I know it's pretty inevitable, but I think it's good to set accomplishable goals. I'm planning to graduate in July, which means I only have 2 semesters left! I've started my new semester, and have lots of work to do. It's going to be really busy, but worth it once it's over.

2. Find a workout schedule I love. I'm leaning toward yoga, or some other class, since self-guided exercise isn't really my thing.

3. Write more. Maybe have one of my works published. I've got a few essays and short stories I've been working on. I'd like to edit them and add to them a little more, and start preparing for self-publication. My main goal, though, is to write more.

4. Be more optimistic. I don't want to lose my sense of reality or anything, but I do want to look on the bright side more. Life is great. I want to be better at reminding myself of that.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Happy New Year!

Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.  ~Benjamin Franklin